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Dear Zara
3My gorgeous little girl. Just over 2 years ago you arrived into mine and daddy’s life kicking and screaming and immediately stole our hearts. You were so gorgeous back then but when I look at the grown up little girl you are today you take my breath away.
This year has been a tough one, between Christmas and March mummy couldn’t pick you up or do much for you because of having a problem pregnancy with your little brother. You even took your first proper steps whilst I was in hospital with him and I’ll always be sad I missed it
I think it was love at first sight when you met Oscar though, seeing you together can’t help but make me smile as you make each other laugh, “share” your toys and help mummy to look after him.
This year has seen you turn into a complete chatterbox! You never stop talking and the things you know amaze me! Daddy and I are so proud of our intelligent little girl.
I’m sad today as I didn’t get to sing happy birthday to you first thing this morning but i’ve been in hospital with your brother
I did manage to get away to spend an hour with you this evening though and it cheered me up so much!
One day you might read this and think it’s a complete load of mushy tripe but I just wanted to put down in words how amazing you are and how much my heart swells with pride when I look at you.
Happy 2nd Birthday my amazing little Zara Brown, I am so looking forward to our next year of discovery with you.
Love
Mummy
Xxx
Mummy, Mum, Mammy, Mam
5I have a dilemma and I need some advice. I’m not a snob and I love living in the North East but recently I’ve been having a battle on my hands
You see up here, they don’t say Mummy or Mum, they say Mammy or Mam. In my heart I’m Zara’s Mummy and that is how I want to be known and what I want her to call me and most of the time she does at the moment.
I’m finding it increasingly difficult though as Zara goes to nursery 5 days a week and all the carers are from the North East and so tend to call us Mammies when talking to the kids about us. When they make cards for us, it is always “To Mammy” written inside it and all the other children call their mothers Mammy.
I feel like I’m being a complete snob by asking nursery to refer to me as Mummy and write that in any cards but I feel like I have to because I don’t want to be Zara’s Mammy
I’m also worried that by teaching Zara to call me Mummy I’m going to alienate her from her friends as she grows up as they will think her “posh”
and she won’t fit in.
Also surely when it comes to learning to write etc they should be taught to write Mummy rather than Mammy as that is the correct way?
What should I do? Should I maintain my position and insist on being Mummy or should I just accept that Zara is growing up in the North East and so let her address me as all her friends address their mothers?
The Gallery – Something I Am Proud Of
20This post is this weeks entry for The Gallery over at Sticky Fingers
The prompt this week is Something I Am Proud Of.
OK so I admit I’m going to be extremely predictable here and I imagine there will be quite a lot of very similar posts like this but if I have to say the things that I am proudest of then of course it is the two tiny terrors – Oscar and Zara. I still can’t believe that somehow I’ve managed to achieve such perfection and I feel like pinching myself.

How can I not be proud of these two?
This photo will be featuring on the Brown family christmas cards this year
My Beautiful Children
6Bear with me but this is a show off post as I’ve just had our first nursery photos back and I couldn’t resist sharing my beautiful children with you
Aren’t they gorgeous
The Britax B-Agile, the full review!
2As you are probably aware I’m a Britax Mumbassador and I’ve been putting the B-Agile through it’s paces for a while now and it’s time for me to give you the full review
In the last couple of months I’ve been using the B-Agile during the week whilst Zara is in nursery and I just have Oscar. Obviously at the weekends I have 2 children and so we need to use a double when out and about
Here are the highs and lows of the B-Agile. If there is something I have missed and you’d really like to know then please leave a comment and I will answer it for you
1) Initial Assembly, well it took me a while to actually find the instructions on how to assemble the B-Agile (in fact for about 10 minutes I thought they hadn’t been included) so I started to put it together without reading them. To be honest this was hardly rocket science, insert 4 wheels, unfold and attach hood. It must have taken me all of 6 minutes (5 minutes in, the instructions fell out of the pushchair whilst I was trying to unfold it so this gave me a little clue
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2) Unfolding and Folding the B-Agile, again this is hardly rocket science either, unclip the storage lock and it pretty much unfolds itself, you just sort of unfold it and everything clicks into place in about 30 seconds. So simple even my husband can do it (and trust me, with 5 other pushchairs he struggles to unfold that is a real plus!)Folding is also surprisingly simple. You just push in a button and lift the handle which is built into the seat and it just folds itself up, then make sure the storage lock has clicked into place and voila. I was most impressed at just how easy to fold and unfold the B-Agile is! Below is a quick video demo of me folding and unfolding the B-Agile to give you an idea of just how quick it is
3) Size of Puschair, considering how light and compact the B-Agile feels, the seat is surprisingly roomy. It’s a bit like an armchair. The seat is really deep and both Oscar and Zara seemed very comfortable in it. When it comes to actually pushing it, it feels light and easily manoeuvrable.
4) Handle Height, now this is something I always note about pushchairs as I’m 5’10″ and my husband is 6’3″ so we tend to have issues with low handle heights on many pushchairs. The height of the handle on the B-Agile is a bit on the low side for my personal preference and it is a shame that it does not adjust at all but I’m guessing most people will find it an ideal height as they must choose that height for a reason
5) The Hood, this is pretty impressive, it clips on securely and seems nice and sturdy. The hood has a rather nifty zip panel to extend it out even more with a mesh panel in the middle. Zara quite liked the sunroof aspect of it. There is also a peek window so you can check on baby. The back of the hood can extend all the way down when the pushchair is reclined flat so that when lying flat baby is still shaded from the sun. There is also a handy little pocket on it, ideal for storing a purse or muslin cloth. One small minus point to the hood is that when zipping the mesh panel back into the hood, it does occasionally catch the mesh in the zip if you aren’t careful and a couple of times I’ve had a bit of a battle with the zip trying to uncatch the mesh.
6 ) Shopping Basket, this isn’t the roomiest of shopping baskets but it’s not a bad size, when the pushchair is reclined flat it is a little difficult to get things in and out of it though.
7) Recline, you recline the pushchair through a toggle system at the back of the seat which is pretty simple and it reclines fully back which is handy when Oscar is asleep as you can adjust the seat smoothly and not disturb him. It does require 2 hands to recline and push back up as the toggles can be a bit tricky but on the whole I’d say it is a fab recline function.
8 ) Smoothness of Ride, so far we’ve taken the B-Agile around our test walk, this is basically a gravel track which is only really suited to pneumatic wheels and I have to admit it fared ok, it wasn’t the easiest to push up the hill compared to the Quinny or the Phil&Teds but let’s face it those pushchairs are designed for more off road use. However when on the pavements and around town the B-Agile is much smoother and easier to handle than either of the Quinny or P&T. I’m pretty impressed with how well it coped to be honest as some pushchairs I’ve tested, I’ve almost had to carry up the track
. The B-Agile really excels in areas with flat floors such as supermarkets, shopping centres and smooth pavements. On these surfaces it really is extremely light to handle and maneouvre.

Oscar chilling out when we took the B-Agile shopping
9) Accessories The B-Agile doesn’t come with any accessories except for car seat adapters. You can buy a carrycot, cosytoes and bumper bar all separately.
10) Cost The cheapest I have seen the B-Agile for sale at is around £200 which as a lightweight stroller which you can attach a car seat to and can be reclined flat and so cater for newborns isn’t a bad price. However if you want to make the B-Agile into a full travel system you will need to also buy various accessories which you should factor into the cost. I’ve seen the carrycots available at around £100, the cosytoes at £40 and the bumper bar for around £30. To be honest the lack of bumper bar doesn’t bother me at all as I would never use it, the only thing I’d consider a necessity is a cosytoes especially with the weather getting colder.
OVERALL OPINION So after all that, would I consider the B-Agile a good buy? Well yes I think I would. It is a fantastic lightweight stroller, easy to maneouvre, easy to fold/unfold. The only small downsides are a) lack of accessories it comes with, b) it doesn’t have a parent facing mode (but I can’t think of any one piece strollers that do to be honest and c) the handle height isn’t adjustable. As with all pushchairs there are always going to be a couple of minus points and the real point to consider is do they put me off buying the pushchair and the answer is no. The good points by far outweigh any negatives and so the B-Agile gets a big thumbs up from us
A Birthday Wish that Came True
5It’s been a while since my husband’s birthday back in September but looking on youtube I came across a video somebody has uploaded which has captured forever how I made his birthday wish come true
My husband was a huge fan of a band called Gene many years ago but sadly they split up in 2004 and he has missed seeing them live. At our wedding reception we took over the DJ and the music consisted of Gene, The Smiths and Morrissey for 90% of the evening.
Fast forward to 2011 and Martin Rossiter, Gene’s lead singer has started a solo tour of gigs which has made my hubby very happy. He has seen him a couple of times this year but we also found out he was performing in Stockton on my husband’s birthday so we booked tickets and arranged a babysitter.
A couple of weeks before the gig we were driving somewhere with a Gene CD playing and a song came on, my husband said “I’d give £500 to hear this song live
It’s my favourite and I’ve never heard it sang”. Of course immediately my mind started plotting. How could I make his wish come true? It seemed like mission impossible but I’m always up for a challenge
Twitter seemed like the obvious place to start and sure enough, with a bit of looking I came across Martin Rossiter on twitter and so I followed him and waited for him to tweet (I find if you tweet people when they are obviously online you are more likely to get a response). Over the next couple of weeks I probably tweeted Martin about 5 times in total (nobody likes to be bombarded) asking him if there was anyway he could add Drawn to the Deep End to the Stockton set list as it was my husbands favourite song and his birthday. I never got a reply and so I assumed we would be disappointed but it was always worth a try right?
And so Friday 23rd September 2011, we are sat in the tiny Georgian Theatre in Stockton listening to an amazing gig, he sang his full set list, came back on for 2 encores, finished those and was about to leave but then he paused, sat back down at the keyboard and said “actually you can have one more” and this happened….
Sometimes birthday wishes do come true
and my husband truely couldn’t believe he had his favourite ever song played to him, for him on his birthday
Durham Lumiere
3Where else could you find a statue of the 3rd Marquess of Londonderry on his horse turned into a giant snowglobe? Well Durham Lumiere of course! Between 17-20th November 2011, Durham turned into a magical place when Lumiere arrived for the second time since it first began in 2009. It is a biennial event and I’m already looking forward to it returning in 2013. We missed it in 2009 as I was 41 weeks pregnant with Zara so this year I was determined to go, despite the cold and damp weather and having a 9 month old and 23 month old with us!
Now I’d love to fill this post with loads of beautiful photos that I took but to be honest it was really misty and so although we saw lots of the installations, my photos are all full of “orbs” from the mist (well either that or the spirits of hundreds of ghosts were showing themselves
)
In total there were 35 installations this year, we didn’t get to see them all but we managed to see most of the ones I really wanted to. A couple were rather disappointing and some where amazing. The crowds were insane and although they advise you to leave buggys at home, with 2 under 2 we didn’t really have an option to and so we braved the crowds with the Twin Techno. The lights come on at 6pm and so headed into town at 5:30pm after dressing the terrors in warm clothes and ensuring they had full stomachs. With their usual bedtime being at 7pm we knew we were risking it but it was an opportunity not to be missed!

Wrapped up warm on a chilly night
I shall start with my favourite installation which was Les Voyageurs, as we walked around South Bailey you couldn’t help but notice the glowing figures soaring overhead or sitting on the rooves or in gardens. There was something really magical about it, almost Peter Pan like. Zara loved them.

Moving on from South Bailey, we came to Rainbow Bridge, which to be honest looked nothing like the website led us to believe it would and was hugely disappointing. It did however look better from down the river which I think was helped by the mist. I didn’t even bother getting the camera out for this installation.
The Cathedral looked amazing with The Crown of Light projected onto it, definitely one of the highlights. It was absolutely stunning. My camera let me down here but I’ve found a video clip on you tube which will give you an idea of how amazing it was:
by rather poor comparison my photo looked like this

Some people apparently thought the giant snowglobe was a monstrosity, I however loved it. Anyone in Durham is familiar with the man on a horse statue that stands proudly in Market Square (he’s the 3rd Marquess of Londonderry apparently!) but to see him encased in a giant snowglobe was just as surreal as it gets! You can’t help but stand and stare.
As we were fast approaching meltdown from a cold and tired Zara we didn’t get to visit too many of the installations and I’m sad that I missed some of the ones I really wanted to see but next time round we will have a 4yo and a 2yo so navigating the crowds and the cold will hopefully be a whole lot easier
Unfortunately by the time you read this, Lumiere will be over for 2011 and you will have to wait until 2013 for it to return but if you do come to visit, here are a few tips!
1) Plan ahead to decide which installations you want to see. The website has details and maps so you can research before you arrive in Durham
2) Parking is crazy so leave plenty of time and pack some patience
3) Wrap up warm, VERY warm!
4) Expect to queue for food, expect crowds, lots of crowds.
5) If possible leave the pushchairs at home, it is bloody hard work getting them through the crowds but if you have to take one you will manage
Kirkley Hall Zoological Gardens
1The Brown’s were recently invited to vist Kirkley Hall Zoological Gardens and with Zara being obsessed with all things aminal (her version) at the moment, we were of course delighted to pop along for a visit
Kirkley Hall Zoological Gardens is a new attraction which has opened at Kirkley Hall, just outside Ponteland in Northumberland. It’s about a 40 minute drive from Durham. Now when it says “Zoo” in the title don’t go expecting Lions, Elephants and Giraffes as it’s not that kind of “Zoo”. It does however have over 100 species of animal including emus, wallabies, marmosets, pygmy goats, donkeys, meerkats, snakes and many more.
As we arrived around lunchtime, we started our visit by going to the Orangery Tea Rooms to fill up the tiny terrors before we went to see the animals. Zara and Oscar shared a childrens lunch between them whilst Alex and I had some baked potatoes which were truely delicious. There was only one small issue in that the tea rooms only had 2 high chairs available for use when we visited. As one was already being used it meant that I spent the first half of my lunch balancing Oscar on my knee until the second high chair became available. I must apologise to them for the state of the floor when we left but eating one handed whilst holding onto a 9 month old who is eating his lunch as well tends to result in a lot of dropped food

Double trouble enjoying lunch
Once we were all fed we set off to see some aminals with an excited Zara leading the way. At places like this it’s impossible to get her to sit in the pushchair as she just wants to rush around seeing everything. Zara loved seeing the Pygmy goats and the marmosets and as we followed the path around the site we came to the petting barn. In here we saw rabbits, guinea pigs, a pony, rats, mice, gerbils, hamsters but the highlight was letting Zara and Oscar meet a rather large friendly rabbit

Oscar meets bunny

Zara was a little unsure of holding bunny herself
After persuading Zara to say goodbye to bunny we were just in time to watch the keepers feeding the Meerkats. Zara was a little confused by the name Meerkat and kept shouting Miaow at them bless her but I think she could have stood and watched them running around all day.

Meerkat
We also loved seeing the “little monkeys” (marmosets) and the “lizards” (chameleons and iguanas) as Zara calls them

"little monkey"

Lizard
There were so many animals it is hard to mention them all but we had a lovely time at Kirkley Hall Zoological Gardens and would definitely pay to go back there. An adult ticket is £5, children 3-17 are £3.50 and aged 2 and under are free. You can also buy family tickets for £15 which admit 2 adults and 3 children. We will definitely be going back again
We are tempted to pop up for the Kirkley Hall Christmas Fair on Sunday 20th November. Entry is only £7 a car and includes entry to the Zoological Gardens as well as the traditional christmas fair. (See their website for details of other events coming soon).



















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