Parenting

A collection of all my posts relating to parenting and family life

Kirkley Hall Zoological Gardens

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The Brown’s were recently invited to vist Kirkley Hall Zoological Gardens and with Zara being obsessed with all things aminal (her version) at the moment, we were of course delighted to pop along for a visit :)

Kirkley Hall Zoological Gardens is a new attraction which has opened at Kirkley Hall, just outside Ponteland in Northumberland. It’s about a 40 minute drive from Durham. Now when it says “Zoo” in the title don’t go expecting Lions, Elephants and Giraffes as it’s not that kind of “Zoo”. It does however have over 100 species of animal including emus, wallabies, marmosets, pygmy goats, donkeys, meerkats, snakes and many more.

As we arrived around lunchtime, we started our visit by going to the Orangery Tea Rooms to fill up the tiny terrors before we went to see the animals. Zara and Oscar shared a childrens lunch between them whilst Alex and I had some baked potatoes which were truely delicious. There was only one small issue in that the tea rooms only had 2 high chairs available for use when we visited. As one was already being used it meant that I spent the first half of my lunch balancing Oscar on my knee until the second high chair became available. I must apologise to them for the state of the floor when we left but eating one handed whilst holding onto a 9 month old who is eating his lunch as well tends to result in a lot of dropped food ;)

Double trouble enjoying lunch

Once we were all fed we set off to see some aminals with an excited Zara leading the way. At places like this it’s impossible to get her to sit in the pushchair as she just wants to rush around seeing everything. Zara loved seeing the Pygmy goats and the marmosets and as we followed the path around the site we came to the petting barn. In here we saw rabbits, guinea pigs, a pony, rats, mice, gerbils, hamsters but the highlight was letting Zara and Oscar meet a rather large friendly rabbit :)

Oscar meets bunny

Zara was a little unsure of holding bunny herself

After persuading Zara to say goodbye to bunny we were just in time to watch the keepers feeding the Meerkats. Zara was a little confused by the name Meerkat and kept shouting Miaow at them bless her but I think she could have stood and watched them running around all day.

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We also loved seeing the “little monkeys” (marmosets) and the “lizards” (chameleons and iguanas) as Zara calls them :)

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Lizard

There were so many animals it is hard to mention them all but we had a lovely time at Kirkley Hall Zoological Gardens and would definitely pay to go back there. An adult ticket is £5, children 3-17 are £3.50 and aged 2 and under are free. You can also buy family tickets for £15 which admit 2 adults and 3 children. We will definitely be going back again :) We are tempted to pop up for the Kirkley Hall Christmas Fair on Sunday 20th November. Entry is only £7 a car and includes entry to the Zoological Gardens as well as the traditional christmas fair. (See their website for details of other events coming soon).

World Prematurity Day – My Preemie

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So today is World Prematurity Day. It’s strange as I don’t think of Oscar as a preemie but I guess being born at 34 weeks and spending his first 16 days in NICU puts him in that category.

Oscar nearly joined us at 26 weeks after a major bleed (I had placenta praevia) but the bleeding stopped, I was given steroid shots to mature his lungs and so the wait began.

We had a few more trips to hospital after that but finally on Feb 12th the doctors decided I was staying in until the baby arrived as it was too unstable. At that point I’d bought him nothing, had no hospital bag packed and my husband was spending all his time looking after Zara who was only 14 months at the time.

That weekend was chaotic and it really was just waiting for the doctors to decide enough was enough. On Monday 14th February at 16:28 Oscar was delivered by emergency c-section. I was under general anaesthetic and lost 3 litres of blood. From reading his notes I later found out Oscar arrived blue and floppy and it took them 5 minutes to get him breathing.

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It was probably a rougher road for me recovering than it was for Oscar. Apart from jaundice and needing to be tube fed he had no other complications and soon mastered breast feeding and when he was 16 days old he was allowed home.

Oscar is now 9 months old (7.5 months corrected), loves his food, is in 9-12 month baby clothes and a happy content baby most of the time. People wouldn’t believe he was a preemie if they see him now :)

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Travelling with Children – Toddler Backpack and Reins Review

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We have recently been sent a toddler backpack and reins set to review from Travelling with Children. With two children under 2, I’m always willing to give anything that might make life a little less stressful a try and as Zara now prefers to spend more time out of the pushchair than in it, it was an ideal product for us to test out.

The backpack comes in red, blue, apple green and pink. We were sent a red one which is great as it means I’ll also be able to use it when Oscar starts walking as well ;) The backpack fastens on easily with a simple 3 way harness and then all you need to do is clip the lead rein onto the bag and your little one is safely attached :) We do have a set of normal reins but find these a bit restrictive as the leads aren’t very long and Zara gets frustrated as she doesn’t have much freedom but with the backpack Zara has more room to explore without feeling “attached” to us and she loves being able to fit her teddy and a drink in her bag.

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An excellent feature is the emergency grab handle on the top of the backpack which means if you needed to stop your child quickly for any reason then you can grab hold of it rather than pulling on the reins. It also has a bright reflector on the back so your little one can be seen in these dark and dreary winter evenings.

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If you need it (which we don’t as none of my two use dummies) there is a handy loop for attaching dummies/soothers to on the straps of the backpack so your toddler can always find it.

If you do buy this product, don’t expect a big backpack that you can fit lots into, it is only for a toddler to carry and so the capacity is only 2.5 litres which we find is just enough for a toy and a drink and a snack. Though to be honest we don’t put anything in it when Zara is wearing it as then she wants to keep taking it off to get her drink out :rolleyes:

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The backpack sells for £15.99 on the Travelling with Children website here which is quite expensive considering you can pay around £6-7 for a set of normal reins but I think it is worth the price as Zara enjoys wearing it so we avoid toddler tantrums when it comes to putting the reins on and anything which avoids tantrums is always worth a bit more money ;)

As well as the backpack, we were also sent a set of Disposable Sterlising Bags. As we are almost out of our sterlising and bottle days nowadays I can’t say we have been able to test them out but they look ideal for people who are going camping or anywhere they can’t conventiently plug in their steriliser. Each bag is a totally self-contained steriliser unit lasting up to 24 hours and will hold at one time a maximum of 4 standard or 3 wide neck bottles. They are safe to use with foreign water and each sachet has clearly printed instructions to enable use without carrying the main pack with you. The pack contains 7 days supply and sells for £12.99 on the Travelling with Children website here.

As a thank you for reading this post, Travelling with Children are offering readers a 15% discount of any Lodger products on their website. Just enter the code “lodger” on checkout to receive your discount :)

You can find Travelling with Children on twitter @twchildren or on their facebook page here

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Beamish – The Living Museum of the North

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A couple of weeks ago the Brown’s were invited for a day out at Beamish Museum. My husband and I have been to Beamish before but pre-children and so we were excited to be going back and this time taking the kids with us :)

Beamish is an open air museum where you travel back in time to see life in the North East in Georgian, Victorian and Edwardian times. Standing in 300 acres of beautiful County Durham countryside, within the site you will find Pockerley Old Hall, The Town, Rowley Station, The Fairground, Home Farm and The Pit Village.

Bearing in mind that Beamish is an open air museum and it was the end of October when we visited, we wrapped up warm against the cold and packed raincovers, umbrellas etc as we wanted to be prepared. We did feel we might be risking it taking two tiny terrors out on a potentially cold and wet day but luckily the weather held out and was actually really pleasant.

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We started our visit by catching the tram to Home Farm. Or rather Zara and I caught the tram whilst Daddy walked down there with Oscar in the pushchair. As you’d expect with vintage trams, they aren’t exactly designed for pushchairs, and whilst you can fold them up and take them on with you, folding up a double buggy laden with bags and carrying two children was just a little too hard work. We were warned that this would be the case before we went to Beamish and so it didn’t worry us at all. We just took it in turns to ride the trams with Zara and one of us would walk with Oscar. Although the site is spread out, it is still perfectly possible to walk around it without using the transport.

At Home Farm we had a wander around the farm house but Zara was more interested in seeing the aminals (as she calls them). On previous visits we have seen chickens, lambs, calves, piglets etc at the farm but of course with us visiting in October the amount of animals around were less than usual though we did get to see some chickens, cows, ducks, geese and pigs.

After exploring Home Farm, we had a leisurely walk up into the Town. As Oscar was getting hungry by this point we decided to take shelter in the bus shelter and give him a bottle whilst we had cups of tea from the conveniently located beverage stand. The bus shelter is also where the baby changing facilities are located which was also convenient (although a little chilly!). Whilst Oscar and I were doing bottles we thought it was a good opportunity for Daddy to take Zara on a tram ride around the site. It takes about 20 minutes to go all the way around the site on a tram and so off they went on the top deck of an open air tram and left us to finish the bottle in peace. :)

If you look closely you can see Zara and Daddy re-enacting Titanic

The Town represents a typical North Eastern market town in the years leading up to the First World War. It has various buildings from a Masonic Hall and Bank to a Dentist, Pub (that sells real beer!) and a Grocery Store. Our favourite is of course the sweet shop where at certain times of the day you can go behind the scenes and watch them making sweets :) Also in the Town are the Tearooms where we popped for some lunch. Now as vegetarians we found the choice a little limiting but we enjoyed some nice sandwiches, crisps and a cup of tea before heading off down to the fairground to have a ride on the steam carousel. I fondly remember the steam carousel’s from my childhood and being dragged to steam fairs as a child by my parents so it was lovely to be able to take Zara on it. She loves horsies and so was very excited :) It cost £1.50 for a ride but it’s one of those things that you just have to do!

Mummy and Zara on the horsies

After managing to drag Zara away from the horsies we walked down to the Pit Village to go and see the Old School House. The Pit Village has lots to see, miners cottages, an old chapel and a recent addition is a traditional fish and chip shop. Now this smelt fantastic but it was disappointing that the chips are all fried in traditional beef dripping which meant as vegetarians it was off limits to us. We’d have loved to have some chips but I guess if they are being traditional then beef dripping it is :(

I think the School was Zara’s favourite place to visit with the old classrooms and slates to write on. It took us a while to persuade her to put down the slate and continue exploring with us.

This Ipad isn't working Daddy!

In the School playground we had a chance to show Zara the kind of things Mummy and Daddy had to play with when we were children (cough cough) and had lots of fun running around with metal hoops and stick things. I can’t for the life of me remember what they were called and we were absolutely useless at it but we certainly had lots of fun trying :)

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By this time, Zara was getting tired as we had been at Beamish for 3 hours and so we decided to call it a day before we had a meltdown situation. Zara opted for the easy option of getting back to the car…

Too tired to walk herself

We had a fantastic day out at Beamish but it feels like we barely scratched the surface. It really does take at least a whole day to get around and with 2 tiny terrors our time was limited. If you are planning on going with small children make sure you plan ahead so you can visit the places you like the look of most and then you won’t be disappointed if you don’t make it around every part of the museum. If you live nearby like we do then I highly recommend buying the Beamish Unlimited tickets which cost £16 and allow an adult 12 months unlimited visits. Children under 5 are free and and at present winter weekday tickets are £8 for an adult.

Tips:
1) Don’t expect to be able to see everything in one day if you have small children with you.
2) Pushchairs won’t go everywhere in Beamish as some displays are authentic and so aren’t designed for pushchair access.
3) Have some extra cash on you for the fairground
4) Wrap up warm – it is an outdoor museum and so if the weather is cold then you will feel it!
5) Plan your visit so you know where you want to go, this way you can make the most of it.

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It’s that time of year again…

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Since having children, last year we started a tradition in the Brown household by making our own photo christmas cards. The image we used on last years card was this one taken on Zara’s first birthday :)

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We don’t send these to everyone but we send around 20 to close friends and family. With us living so far away from them we think it is a nice way of letting them see how our children are growing and something to keep :)

So this weekend we attempted to take photos for this years card. As you’re no doubt away we have an extra face to put on the card this year and so we have recycled last years snowman outfit and bought Zara a new one. Trying to get a 9 month old and 23 month old to sit still and pose for a photo proved rather difficult and I’m not sure I’ve got a good enough one for the actual cards yet but I thought I’d share some images from our photo session anyway as they are rather cute :)

 

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Wow Toys – Casey The Camper Van

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Some product reviews are so easy to write and this is one of them. When Wow Toys sent us a toy for Zara to review we were ever so excited when Casey Camper Van turned up in the post! As soon as I saw what was in the box I just knew that Zara was going to love it and it didn’t prove me wrong!

Casey is a fab friction controlled camper van so it doesn’t need batteries, which is always a HUGE plus point in this household. But the fun doesn’t stop at just pushing Casey around, once you open up Casey there is living accomodation inside the campervan and the roof pulls down to reveal a garden with a hop skotch. Casey comes with a boy and a girl figure (renamed by Zara as Oscar and Zara), a picnic table, a dog and a dog basket. There are also a couple of luggage parcels which fit into the shape indentations on the roof. Zara has spent hours playing with Casey already, she loves putting the different figures to bed or in the driving seat, or sitting them down for a picnic.

If I was being picky, the only small problem we have with Casey is that Zara finds it a bit difficult to open the roof out by herself and gets frustrated with it occasionally. She has only been using it 2 days though so I’m sure she will master it. Apart from this it has been love at first sight here. When she gets up in the morning, Casey is the first toy she goes to and if Zara had her way Casey would be going in the bath with her and into bed at night :rolleyes:

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When reviewing items, we like to guess the price if we aren’t already aware of it. This way we can work out whether we think it is valued at around the right price. Both my husband and I thought £20 would be a reasonable price and we were spot on. We found it on Amazon here for £19.95

We in the Brown household think Casey would make a fantabulous gift for any toddler 18+ months for Christmas. It’s fun, provides hours of entertainment and best of all it doesn’t need batteries so you won’t be desperately looking for any on Christmas Day :)

Contents:
1x Motorised camper van called Casey
1x Boy and girl figure called Pete and Lilly
1x Dog animal figure called Sammy
1x Dog basket and dog bowl
1x Picnic table
2x Luggage items

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Silent Sunday

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The Whirlee – A fab lightweight ride on from Mookie Toys

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In our house, our kitchen is a bit like a race track. We love ride ons (or rather Zara does) and so when Mookie Toys asked us to review their new Whirlee ride on we were more than happy to let Zara test it out.

The Whirlee is a fab little 4 wheeled ride on which weighs only 865g. In fact I initially felt sorry for our postman when I saw him carrying the box up our drive but when I braced myself to take it off him, I was surprised as it felt like I had been sent an empty box!

As the Whirlee is so lightweight it would be ideal for popping in the car for trips to the park or holidays and if as let’s face it we mums usually do, you end up carrying it home it won’t damage your back ;)

One slight disadvantage we noticed with it being so light is that Zara can lift it very easily as we found when we turned around to find it on the kitchen table with Zara trying to climb up there as well. Now obviously not all toddlers are as kamikaze as Zara and as with all toys they should be used with supervision and Zara has been told that the Whirlee is for floor use only ;)

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Another fun feature is the 360 degree caster wheels allowing kids to speedily spin and whirl across the floor. Zara found this great as it allows her to chase our cats just that little bit faster. I swear when she grows up she will master handbrake turns very quickly ;)

As well as riding the Whirlee, which Zara loves doing (once she figured out that the handle goes at the front) she has also discovered it is apparently fun to push it around the kitchen at top speed. Heaven help us when Oscar is also mobile enough to use it, I can just image the crazy times they are both going to have with it.

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The Whirlee comes in red or blue and retails for approximately £19.99 making it an affordable and impressive gift for any pre-schooler. It is suitable for ages 1+ so it won’t be long til Oscar can use it to! You can buy it at various retailers including amazon, mothercare and early learning centre. It’s only £16.99 on Amazon so I’d personally get it there ;)

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Kiddicare – BabyWeavers Walk n Rock

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Recently Oscar has been busy reviewing a BabyWeavers Walk n Rock which we have been kindly sent :)

Our full review can be read over on the Kiddicare Blog so pop across and see what we thought of it. In the meantime here are a few photos of Oscar hard at work :)

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Silent Sunday

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