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Silent Sunday

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The Gallery – The Kitchen

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This post is this weeks entry for The Gallery over at Sticky Fingers

The prompt this week is The Kitchen.

Quite a suitable subject for us this week as a certain little lady in the Brown household turned 2 yesterday! Her present from mummy and daddy was a brand new shiny kitchen so she could open her own cafe ;) it wasn’t long before her first customer arrived either :)

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Dear Zara

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My gorgeous little girl. Just over 2 years ago you arrived into mine and daddy’s life kicking and screaming and immediately stole our hearts. You were so gorgeous back then but when I look at the grown up little girl you are today you take my breath away.

This year has been a tough one, between Christmas and March mummy couldn’t pick you up or do much for you because of having a problem pregnancy with your little brother. You even took your first proper steps whilst I was in hospital with him and I’ll always be sad I missed it :(

I think it was love at first sight when you met Oscar though, seeing you together can’t help but make me smile as you make each other laugh, “share” your toys and help mummy to look after him.

This year has seen you turn into a complete chatterbox! You never stop talking and the things you know amaze me! Daddy and I are so proud of our intelligent little girl.

I’m sad today as I didn’t get to sing happy birthday to you first thing this morning but i’ve been in hospital with your brother :( I did manage to get away to spend an hour with you this evening though and it cheered me up so much!

One day you might read this and think it’s a complete load of mushy tripe but I just wanted to put down in words how amazing you are and how much my heart swells with pride when I look at you.

Happy 2nd Birthday my amazing little Zara Brown, I am so looking forward to our next year of discovery with you.

Love

Mummy

Xxx

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Mummy, Mum, Mammy, Mam

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I have a dilemma and I need some advice. I’m not a snob and I love living in the North East but recently I’ve been having a battle on my hands :(

You see up here, they don’t say Mummy or Mum, they say Mammy or Mam. In my heart I’m Zara’s Mummy and that is how I want to be known and what I want her to call me and most of the time she does at the moment.

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I’m finding it increasingly difficult though as Zara goes to nursery 5 days a week and all the carers are from the North East and so tend to call us Mammies when talking to the kids about us. When they make cards for us, it is always “To Mammy” written inside it and all the other children call their mothers Mammy.

I feel like I’m being a complete snob by asking nursery to refer to me as Mummy and write that in any cards but I feel like I have to because I don’t want to be Zara’s Mammy :(

I’m also worried that by teaching Zara to call me Mummy I’m going to alienate her from her friends as she grows up as they will think her “posh” :( and she won’t fit in.

Also surely when it comes to learning to write etc they should be taught to write Mummy rather than Mammy as that is the correct way?

What should I do? Should I maintain my position and insist on being Mummy or should I just accept that Zara is growing up in the North East and so let her address me as all her friends address their mothers?

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Silent Sunday

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The Gallery – Something I Am Proud Of

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This post is this weeks entry for The Gallery over at Sticky Fingers

The prompt this week is Something I Am Proud Of.

OK so I admit I’m going to be extremely predictable here and I imagine there will be quite a lot of very similar posts like this but if I have to say the things that I am proudest of then of course it is the two tiny terrors – Oscar and Zara. I still can’t believe that somehow I’ve managed to achieve such perfection and I feel like pinching myself.

How can I not be proud of these two?

This photo will be featuring on the Brown family christmas cards this year :)

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My Beautiful Children

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Bear with me but this is a show off post as I’ve just had our first nursery photos back and I couldn’t resist sharing my beautiful children with you :) Aren’t they gorgeous :)

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A Birthday Wish that Came True

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It’s been a while since my husband’s birthday back in September but looking on youtube I came across a video somebody has uploaded which has captured forever how I made his birthday wish come true :)

My husband was a huge fan of a band called Gene many years ago but sadly they split up in 2004 and he has missed seeing them live. At our wedding reception we took over the DJ and the music consisted of Gene, The Smiths and Morrissey for 90% of the evening.

Fast forward to 2011 and Martin Rossiter, Gene’s lead singer has started a solo tour of gigs which has made my hubby very happy. He has seen him a couple of times this year but we also found out he was performing in Stockton on my husband’s birthday so we booked tickets and arranged a babysitter.

A couple of weeks before the gig we were driving somewhere with a Gene CD playing and a song came on, my husband said “I’d give £500 to hear this song live :( It’s my favourite and I’ve never heard it sang”. Of course immediately my mind started plotting. How could I make his wish come true? It seemed like mission impossible but I’m always up for a challenge :)

Twitter seemed like the obvious place to start and sure enough, with a bit of looking I came across Martin Rossiter on twitter and so I followed him and waited for him to tweet (I find if you tweet people when they are obviously online you are more likely to get a response). Over the next couple of weeks I probably tweeted Martin about 5 times in total (nobody likes to be bombarded) asking him if there was anyway he could add Drawn to the Deep End to the Stockton set list as it was my husbands favourite song and his birthday. I never got a reply and so I assumed we would be disappointed but it was always worth a try right?

And so Friday 23rd September 2011, we are sat in the tiny Georgian Theatre in Stockton listening to an amazing gig, he sang his full set list, came back on for 2 encores, finished those and was about to leave but then he paused, sat back down at the keyboard and said “actually you can have one more” and this happened….

Sometimes birthday wishes do come true :) and my husband truely couldn’t believe he had his favourite ever song played to him, for him on his birthday :)

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Durham Lumiere

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Where else could you find a statue of the 3rd Marquess of Londonderry on his horse turned into a giant snowglobe? Well Durham Lumiere of course! Between 17-20th November 2011, Durham turned into a magical place when Lumiere arrived for the second time since it first began in 2009. It is a biennial event and I’m already looking forward to it returning in 2013. We missed it in 2009 as I was 41 weeks pregnant with Zara so this year I was determined to go, despite the cold and damp weather and having a 9 month old and 23 month old with us! :)

Now I’d love to fill this post with loads of beautiful photos that I took but to be honest it was really misty and so although we saw lots of the installations, my photos are all full of “orbs” from the mist (well either that or the spirits of hundreds of ghosts were showing themselves ;) )

In total there were 35 installations this year, we didn’t get to see them all but we managed to see most of the ones I really wanted to. A couple were rather disappointing and some where amazing. The crowds were insane and although they advise you to leave buggys at home, with 2 under 2 we didn’t really have an option to and so we braved the crowds with the Twin Techno. The lights come on at 6pm and so headed into town at 5:30pm after dressing the terrors in warm clothes and ensuring they had full stomachs. With their usual bedtime being at 7pm we knew we were risking it but it was an opportunity not to be missed!

Wrapped up warm on a chilly night

I shall start with my favourite installation which was Les Voyageurs, as we walked around South Bailey you couldn’t help but notice the glowing figures soaring overhead or sitting on the rooves or in gardens. There was something really magical about it, almost Peter Pan like. Zara loved them.

Moving on from South Bailey, we came to Rainbow Bridge, which to be honest looked nothing like the website led us to believe it would and was hugely disappointing. It did however look better from down the river which I think was helped by the mist. I didn’t even bother getting the camera out for this installation.

The Cathedral looked amazing with The Crown of Light projected onto it, definitely one of the highlights. It was absolutely stunning. My camera let me down here but I’ve found a video clip on you tube which will give you an idea of how amazing it was:

by rather poor comparison my photo looked like this :(

Some people apparently thought the giant snowglobe was a monstrosity, I however loved it. Anyone in Durham is familiar with the man on a horse statue that stands proudly in Market Square (he’s the 3rd Marquess of Londonderry apparently!) but to see him encased in a giant snowglobe was just as surreal as it gets! You can’t help but stand and stare.

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As we were fast approaching meltdown from a cold and tired Zara we didn’t get to visit too many of the installations and I’m sad that I missed some of the ones I really wanted to see but next time round we will have a 4yo and a 2yo so navigating the crowds and the cold will hopefully be a whole lot easier :)

Unfortunately by the time you read this, Lumiere will be over for 2011 and you will have to wait until 2013 for it to return but if you do come to visit, here are a few tips!

1) Plan ahead to decide which installations you want to see. The website has details and maps so you can research before you arrive in Durham

2) Parking is crazy so leave plenty of time and pack some patience

3) Wrap up warm, VERY warm!

4) Expect to queue for food, expect crowds, lots of crowds.

5) If possible leave the pushchairs at home, it is bloody hard work getting them through the crowds but if you have to take one you will manage :)

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