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A grand day out with our Snugbaby

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This is another one of those products that I am completely in love with (and no I haven’t been paid to say that!). I purchased my Snugbaby after being lucky enough to meet Claire at the NEC baby show where she let me try one of the carriers and I found it so comfy I just had to buy one. We already have another structured baby carrier but we never really got on that well with it, it was fiddly to put on, made my back ache after 15 minutes of using it and I felt like I was constantly having to support Zara with my arms as the weight was just too heavy on back. I had none of these problems with the Snugbaby and both myself and my husband love this product.

For more information on the Snugbaby carrier and to see more of their lovely designs check out their website
Snugbaby Website

I have to admit that when you first receive your Snugbaby and the various carry instructions it does seem a bit daunting but with a little bit of practice it soon becomes very easy to use. My main tip is to make sure you fasten the straps tight enough – and it helps if you hold the baby close to you when tying so that their weight doesn’t pull on the straps until they are secure. This ensures that the sling stays in a comfortable position and feels more secure.

For this review I decided to show you our trip out today, I think it’s pretty obvious from all our faces how much we all love our Snugbaby!

Today we  went out for a trip to Durham Botanical Gardens and had a lovely day out exploring the gardens and greenhouses with Zara. Initially daddy was hogging the Snugbaby as he usually does and took Zara to see the greenhouses with her in a front carry.

She loves being carried like this as she gets to see everything up close and personal and Daddy loves showing her all the jungle plants and the rain from the sprinkler system.

She even got to get up close and personal with some bird eating tarantulas! Wow I couldn’t see that from my pushchair!

When Daddy eventually let Mummy have a turn at carrying Zara for a while we opted for the back carry position, this is probably the trickiest carry to master as it involves throwing baby over your shoulder but once you get the hang of it, it’s actually quite easy and worth persevering with as it’s my favourite carry position and Zara loves it too!

With Zara now seeing the world from my viewpoint we set off for a long walk around the gardens, we must have spent about an hour wandering around and my back felt absolutely fine and Zara was very happy in her position although I had to make sure she didn’t grap hold of too many plants on the way round.

At the end of a lovely walk we were both still smiling.

I can now give you a lovely discount code that you can use when ordering your snugbaby online to get a 5% discount off the price – please enter FOS_DB at checkout. :) or you can just click on the badge below to take you straight there and automatically add the discount for you :)


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Today I’m Reminiscing

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For some reason today I’ve been thinking back to my life before marriage and babies. I don’t know why it’s in my head today of all days. I’m very content with my lot, I love my husband, my baby and my house up here in the not-so-sunny North East.

Before I met my husband I was single and living alone in a rented flat in Hull. My life back then was dominated by my equine lifestyle. I rode various horses and competed at dressage (or stressage as more commonly know by the horsey community I mingled in). Outside of work I lived in jodphurs, I rarely wore makeup, everything I owned was covered in horse hair and my car smelt like a stable. I was out riding in the wind, the rain, the snow, occasionally the sun and I loved it. I loved my horsey friends, the horses I rode and seeing the countryside from a different angle.

There is something really nice about riding down country bridleways on a sunny morning. For some reason the wildlife doesn’t see you as much of a threat when you’re on a horse and as you trot along you have some wonderful encounters with rabbits, deer (ok so our encounter with the deer could probably be described more as a chaotic encounter), various native birds etc. In our old menage we had a little barn own who used to sit on the fence and watch us schooling in the winter evenings when it was dark, occasionally swooping across the school with that graceful silence that only owls seem to have.

Right now I would love to just be able to change into my jods, throw on my boots and get on my old Arthur and take him for a good gallop across the fields but of course I have a sleeping baby upstairs and Arthur is now retired and living near Hull where I left him when we moved up to the North East. In fact I haven’t ridden since then (about 3 years ago :( ) and I know it’s my fault but life has been pretty chaotic with a new marriage, new baby, 2 house moves, new jobs, new business and a new community – I guess riding has just faded into the background.

I know deep down that riding is not given up forever, in fact I’m sure as soon as Zara is old enough I’ll be chucking her on a horse and in a few years it could be me and Zara trotting down those bridleways together as I show her how wonderful life in the saddle is. :)

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Sometimes skinny just isn’t the best

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This post is done as part of the Writing Workshop over at Sleep is for the Weak

Writing Workshop

I decided (rather bravely) to opt for prompt number 1 and to talk about feeling sexy in my own skin (eek!)

I guess I’ve been pretty lucky when it comes to my figure and looks, don’t get me wrong I’m certainly no amazing beauty or supermodel but I’m pretty happy with what I’ve got. I didn’t always think this way, at school I hated being the short skinny girl that seemed forever trapped in a prepubescent body, I was a late bloomer I eventually found out. I eventually shot up in height and my adult body arrived. 5’10″, size 10 (UK) with a 35inch inside leg measurement - not bad if I must confess myself. If I could change anything it would probably be my face but I’m not too bothered by it really, after 34 years I’ve kind of grown used to it :)

As much as I don’t mind being skinny, it’s not this stage in my life where I felt really sexy in my own skin. OK so I can get away with wearing nice clothes and I look pretty hot in a bikini and all that but that is just the outside packaging and as much as the men drool, it isn’t this that makes me feel good inside.

If I have to choose a photo of when I felt at my most sexy it would be this one (gosh am I really brave enough to post this photo – oh sod it why not if it offends any one then that’s their problem not mine!)

But – I hear you all cry – you’re pregnant! How on earth can you possibly feel sexy whilst pregnant? Strange isn’t it but it was whilst I was pregnant that I felt the most like a woman that I ever have. It may have been the raging hormones or maybe my pregnancy brain finally lost the plot – but there was something about being nice and curvy, feeling like I was doing what nature intended and growing my offspring inside me which made me feel sexy. OK I admit I was lucky in my pregnancy in that I didn’t get stretch marks, I wasn’t too huge and I didn’t get swollen feet etc and aside from the heartburn I had a pretty easy ride.

I’ve never been the maternal kind really, I’m an accountant, a professional, a business woman and my life until now has been spent building a career and having very little interest in children so imagine my surprise at finding myself enjoying how I looked when I was heavily pregnant. I was expecting to hate being large but for some reason it was nice to put aside all those sleek outfits and wear nice flowing garments which showed off what little bump I had. I truely felt like a woman and comfortable in my own skin. I really miss being pregnant nowadays.

So there you have it – sometimes skinny just isn’t the best :)

The photograph was taken by sister Sonia Thorpe Photography when I was 36 weeks pregnant.

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The Gallery Part 2 – Creatures

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OK so my other cat is throwing a strop that Indie has featured in the gallery this week but she hasn’t – so I give you Dizzy Izzy the deaf cat

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The Gallery – Creatures

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This weeks prompt over Sticky Fingers is creatures. Now I was tempted to go off with my camera around the garden and capture lots of unusual bugs and creepy crawlies but seeing as I am petrified of anything which has more than four legs I decided to opt for the safer option.

You’ve all no doubt heard of Cat in a Hat – well this week I give you……Cat in a Sink!

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Today I have to retire an old friend

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It’s my fisherprice rainforest swing :(

We put this up the day Zara arrived home from hospital when she was 2 days old and it has been used pretty much every day since then.

We’ve slept in it when all else has failed, we’ve watched tv in it, we’ve swung in it, we’ve played peek-a-boo in it and most importantly we sit in it after every bottle to let our tummy settle so we don’t bring up all our milk again. But as of today the swing is officially being retired because we now do this in it.

So thank you dear swing for six and a half months of happy service and I wish you a happy retirement.

My problem is I now need to find a replacement seating option for her – any ideas?

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Products I Love – Snoozeshade

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I’ll start this review by pointing out that this review has not been requested by Snoozeshade and I have not received any payment or free products from them in exchange for it. I bought my Snoozeshade myself as I was having difficulty when out and about with Zara as she wouldn’t sleep for long in her pram and it was proving difficult to plan days out.

For more details about Snoozeshade visit their website Here Snoozeshades can be bought from their site directly or there is a list of Stockists on the site aswell. RRP is £19.99. I use the Snoozeshade on our Quinny Buzz and the Quinny Zapp and it fits absolutely fine. There is a list of pushchairs that it fits on their website and by the look of the list it fits pretty much all prams/pushchairs :)

I have to admit I was pretty doubtful at first as to how good this product would be. Zara is not exactly the easiest baby to get to go to sleep especially when she is overtired but I was desperate and willing to try anything.

Our first time using the snoozeshade was at the Baby Show in the NEC, with bright lights and so much going on I was really hoping that Zara would at least manage to get some sleep during the day. Any doubts I had about the product went out of the window when Zara had a nice long nap under her snoozeshade – the only slight disadvantage was that we kept getting stopped by people asking whether it worked or not – so I lost count of the number of people who had a sneaky peek in at a sleeping Zara during her nap. Hopefully Snoozeshade found their sales increase thanks to me pointing them in the direction of the Snoozeshade stall lol.

Going for days out used to be very hit and miss with Zara, particularly if we intended to have a nice pub lunch whilst out as if Zara was awake meals were always rushed or if there was a long wait for food we would both sit their nervously trying to entertain Zara in the hope that we could get through the whole process before we had an overtired meltdown. A couple of weeks ago we had the most relaxing and enjoyable lunch out since before Z arrived on the scene. Having selected a nice table outside the pub with a little bit of shade, we set about selected our meal choice from the menu only to be told there was a 45 minute wait for food – cue panic! But we decided to be brave and I gave Z her bottle and as she was getting sleepy I put her down in the pram and slid on the snoozeshade. 2 minutes later she was asleep and my husband and I enjoyed a couple of nice drinks whilst waiting for our food to arrive. 40 minutes later our food arrived and we managed to demolish most of this in a very leisurely way, occasionally peeking in at a still sleeping Z. Of course Z is very much like her mum and as soon as dessert was mentioned she woke up and joined us for a bit of cake :) I think that afternoon was one of the nicest days out we have had this year – so relaxed and Zara was a complete sweetheart thanks to her long lunchtime nap.

I find I have the snoozeshade permanently attached to our pram as one of the other great advantages is that is has an UPF of 50+ . Whilst out Quinny is great for keeping the sun off Zara’s head and upper body I always worry about her little legs poking out and being in the sun, even with factor 50+ on I would still rather they be in the shade. Nowadays when Z is awake I just fasten the bottom half of the Snoozeshade over the Quinny and it gives a nice sunshade for her legs. Then when she drops off all I have to do is fold it up over the hood of the Quinny and voila :)

Photos from our walk this morning are shown below :)

First – in sunshade mode, it keeps that nasty sun off her legs

And then as she nods off to sleep I just fold up the Snoozeshade over the hood of the Quinny and we have sleep mode

And just so you can see inside – Sleeping Beauty

In Summary – This is one of those products that I am so glad I bought. It works a treat and has made days out with Z so much easier. Highly recommended!

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Am I wrong to be appauled by this…

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Now I know I’ll never be the perfect parent and I’m not usually one to judge other peoples parenting techniques but on a shopping trip to Toys R Us today (we were searching for a couple of toys to encourage Zara to crawl), both myself and my husband stopped in shock and amazement when we came across a range of toys from McDonalds – a drive through set, a happy meal set and a couple of other things.

Now how on earth are parents supposed to encourage healthy eating when fast food restaurants are now branching out into “toys” which encourage them to play with happy meals, fries and burgers etc. Something about this just seems so so wrong and I’m surprised toys like this are allowed to be honest.

Maybe I’m biased because I don’t like McDonalds or fast food places anyway because both myself and my husband are vegetarian and will be raising Zara veggie aswell but I just don’t understand this at all. Would a parent really buy this for their child?

I admit I’ll give Zara the odd chip if we are out having a meal somewhere – like today for instance, we are doing baby led weaning and so she is used to eating what we eat, which at home is healthy meals mainly vegetables but if we go out we’ll occasionally get chips and give Zara once to munch on to keep her quiet whilst we eat our meals – I know shocking parenting ;) But at least if she grows up knowing that chips aren’t forbidden things or a special treat then she will accept them occasionally as part of a healthy balanced diet.

Sorry my little rant is now over – hope I haven’t offended anyone, each to their own and all that :)

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Motherhood

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OK so this is my first attempt at something like this, so bear with me :) It’s an entry for The Gallery over at
Sticky Fingers

As I look through my photo gallery I have thousands of photos which could represent motherhood to me. There are ones where I look like the ultimate yummy mummy with nice hair and a smiling baby, there are ones where I look exhausted and on the brink of tears. There are ones that make me cry, ones that make me laugh and ones that I just want to stare at for hours on end. It’s a tough choice but the photo I’ve eventually decided on isn’t exactly the most glamourous in my collection but to me it’s special. Zara was only a few hours old and we were breastfeeding in our hospital bed and I think the photo says it all really.

There is something about this that brings back those precious moments when we were first bonding and I couldn’t stop staring at this amazing little thing that I had somehow created. How on earth I had managed to create something so perfect I will never know.

I could write beautiful poems or verses about how wonderful motherhood has been but to be honest it’s been hard, tiring, messy and a very steep learning curve that only now 6 months later I finally feel I’m coming to grips with. I’m hardly the earth mother type and as I look back through my photos now I realise for every beautiful photo there are a hundred of me that show just how hard this journey has been. Don’t get me wrong,  I love my daughter and would do anything for her, we’ve had many beautiful moments together and shared many smiles and laughs but I just wanted to paint a picture of how motherhood is not all sugar and roses. It’s the most rewarding task I’ve ever started in my life, one I know which will give me a lifetimes worth of precious memories and I wouldn’t swap it for the world – but my god it’s been hard! :)

And there ends my thoughts on motherhood :)

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My £12 Fathers Day Priceless Works of Art

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OK so this isn’t Daddy’s only Fathers Day present this year but I’m hoping it will be his favourite :)

Not exactly masterpieces but they are Zara’s first ever piece of art so I’m hoping he will appreciate them for what they are.

Canvases – 2 x £3.99 from Sainsburys
Fingerpaints – £4

Time spent creating – 15 minutes, a lot of babywipes, baby in long sleeved bib and securely fastened in highchair :)

I think Zara enjoyed making them, although she was pretty mad that I wouldn’t let her eat the paint and with the help of a lot of baby wipes all evidence of painting has been removed and I just need the paint to dry before wrapping them up for Daddy.

The handprint one didn’t turn out quite aswell as the footprints because it’s a bit harder to get those fingers spread out whilst trying to prevent Zara eating the paint.

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