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Today I will deliberately spoil my ballot paper
0Today the nation goes to the polls to vote in a referendum, a referendum to decide whether we want a new voting system here. Well yes I do want a new voting system, I think that the current first past the post system is unfair and I think we need to change but what we have been offered as an alternative (the alternative vote system) is a very poor substitute for what I really want which is proportional representation which is by far a much fairer system than either of the two options that we have to vote for. Its not like I don’t understand the options or haven’t researched them. My husband teaches politics so I am probably more informed about the options that your average Joe Bloggs on the street
It means that I am facing a dilemma here, I hate the Tories and really don’t want to side with them by voting for FPTP but I have also fallen out with the Lib Dems who have sold out in a coalition, gone back on half of their election promises and generally proved themselves to be a weak party. I will add at this point that whereas I used to sometimes vote for the LibDems, in the general election I voted Labour as I could see this happening and decided to use my vote tactically and vote Labour instead.
So there we have it, I don’t want to vote for either option thank you very much. Now having come to this conclusion it would be very easy for me to just not bother turning out to vote but I can’t do that. You see many women fought hard to get me and every woman the right to vote and I appreciate this, I don’t want to be recognised as one of those people who can’t be bothered to turn up and be part of the no show statistics.
And so today I will turn out to vote, I will go to the polling station, pick up my ballot form and when I get to the booth I will add another option to my form, I will add proportional representation and place my X next to that. Yes it won’t achieve anything, it will be classed as a spoilt ballot but I will still be included in turnout figures, I will still be one of those people that exercised my right to vote, I will still be showing my appreciation to those who fought to get me that right, I just won’t be voting for either of the options available.
Win a Pair of NEC Baby Show Tickets with Mamascarf
12The lovely Keira from Mamascarf has offered me a pair of NEC Baby Show tickets to give away to one of my readers. She will be on stand M10 so make sure you pop by and say hello!
Mamascarf is an award winning breastfeeding scarf that not only allows mothers to breastfeed stylishly and discreetly but also provides essential support without the need for a cushion.
The Mamascarf can be worn as a scarf, or neatly folded away. It even comes complete with a hidden pocket to store your breastpad.
- It is easy to use and won’t draw attention to you.
- Less distraction for your baby.
- Hides your post pregnancy tummy.
- Covers you before and after feeding.
- 100% cotton and machine washable at 30 degrees.
- The perfect gift idea for someone special who is pregnant.
- Was invented by a breastfeeding mum for other breastfeeding mums!
- One size fits all.
- You can still see your baby and maintain eye contact.
- New improved soft tactile cotton.
- Can be used to feed any age baby.
- The textured fabric is great for disguising creases.
To enter all you need to do is the following:
Go and “like” Mamascarf’s Facebook page here then pop back and leave me a comment letting me know you’ve done it, make sure you leave me a twitter ID or email address so we can contact you if you win!
For an extra chance of winning tweet the following message and then leave a separate comment letting me know you’ve done it.
“I’ve entered to win tickets for the baby show at the NEC from @mamascarf and @dawnie_brown http://wp.me/pWTCL-g0 ”
Max 2 entries per person
Winner will be picked on Sun 1st May at 7pm.
Win a pair of tickets for The Baby Show at the NEC
0This May The Baby Show returns to Birmingham’s NEC to offer must have products, free expert advice and an unrivalled shopping experience for parents and parents-to-be.
In just one day visitors can shop for everything they need from the widest range of products including all the baby brands mums love. Shopping at The Show means huge savings can be enjoyed on 1000s of must have baby and maternity products as The Baby Show offers tons of exclusive deals and unbeatable prices. What’s more, new and expectant parents can try before they buy ensuring peace of mind.
At The Show world-leading experts will be on head to offer complementary sessions giving out professional advice and tips. Breastfeeding specialist Clare Byam-Cook, nutrition expert Annabel Karmel and the British Red Cross will all be on hand to dish out their professional expertise. Plus, Next will be offering maternity wear consultations to ensure all mummies stay yummy before, during and after pregnancy. The Baby Show is great day out for all the family.
Last year I went to The Baby Show at the NEC with my sister and we had a great time, this year we are also planning on going as between us we’ve had another 2 babies since then! The Baby Show have asked me to write a guest post for their blog on life with two small children and you can read it here The Baby Show Blog . They are going to give away a pair of tickets to one person who comments on the post so pop on over there and leave a comment giving me some advice or even just offering me some sympathy
The winner will be selected from all comments on my guest post on Weds 20th April at 8am so hurry as you’ve only got 24 hours to enter!!
MAD Blog Awards
1I write this blog because I enjoy blogging, not for commercial reasons but because I like to talk. I try to be as honest and open as I can about my life (within reason) and so I am truely proud that some of my lovely readers have nominated me for MAD Blog Awards I’d like to say a HUGE THANK YOU! to those of you that have nominated me and I’m pleased that you find my blog interesting
Of course being nominated isn’t the end of it, only the 5 blogs that receive the most nominations in each category go through to the finals and so if you haven’t already nominated yet and are still considering who to nominate then I would be very grateful if you could consider nominating me for any of the following awards. These are the awards that I have currently been nominated for:
- Best MAD Baby Blog
- Best Family Life MAD Blog
- MAD Blogger of the year 2011
If you’d like to nominate me or any other blogger for the MAD awards then click on the badge below to be taken to the nomination form.
The Gallery: Mother Love
7This post is this weeks entry for The Gallery over at Sticky Fingers
The prompt this week is Mother Love. I don’t get to see my family much so dont have many photos of my mum and this is a rare one with me, my mum and my daughter all in the same photo. Motherly love in all directions
Census 2011, 10 years and 10 changes
4Seeing as it’s Census 2011 time I’ve been having a think about all the changes in my life since the last Census in 2001 and I thought I’d try and list 10 things that have changed in my life over the last 10 years so here goes:
1) In 2001 I was living in Hull, since then I’ve moved in with hubby in York, then we moved to rented accomodation in Durham before finding the house of our dreams in Bearpark 3 years ago.
2) In 2001 I was single and living alone, since then of course I met my husband in January 2006 and got married in August 2007.
3) Of course back in 2001 I was also childless, since then Zara arrived on 29/11/09 swiftly followed by Oscar on 14/2/11.
4) Back in 2001 I had a Fjord horse called Aida and I spent 95% of my free time at the stables or out riding, since moving to Durham and having children I haven’t had chance to get back in the saddle although this is something I plan on doing at some point. I can’t wait until Zara is old enough to ride!
5) In 2001 I was just starting my qualification as a Chartered Accountant, 10 years on I am building up my own Accountancy company ABC North East It’s still small but I am gradually building up a very nice client base.
6) Back in 2001 I was saddled with debt from student loans but these are all paid off now and a distant memory
7) In 2001 I was still a meat eater, it wasn’t until I met my husband who is a vegetarian that I turned veggie myself. I don’t miss eating meat at all.
In 2001 I didn’t own a house, I was renting a one bedroom flat in Hull now we own a lovely house and a rather scary sized mortgage
9) Back in 2001 I had 4 nephews, over the last few years we’ve had a baby boom in the family and I’ve now got 5 nephews and 2 nieces and if we include Zara and Oscar then my parents have had 5 more grandchildren since the last census was done!
10) Back in 2001 I think I was a bit of a lonely recluse and not particularly happy with my life, now I’m still a bit of a recluse but I have a wonderful family and find myself smiling all the time when I look at my wonderful little family and all that I have achieved over the last 10 years!
I considered making this post a MeMe and tagging people but I’m not very good at that but I’d love to know what changes have happened to you since the last Census so feel free to post me a link to your blog if you do something similar or just comment below
Mother Brown’s Guide to Baby Clothes
2After a twitter conversation at 3am this morning on the confusing world of baby clothes, I thought I’d put down a guide to dressing your baby. (warning: some of this post is tongue in cheek and opinions are all mine so please do not be offended if you like to dress your baby in frills
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So lets start with the basics
Vest
Otherwise known as a bodysuit in the US. This is the basic staple item in your babies wardrobe. They are worn as underwear under all other clothes and you will need about 12 in each size as your baby grows.
You can get long sleeved, short sleeved, sleeveless, patterned, ones with funny sayings, plain etc but I find the basic white sleeveless vest is best. It goes under everything, is easy to put on and take off and is unisex so when second baby arrives (as I am discovering) it doesn’t matter whether it’s a boy or girl as you can just dig out all the old vests and recycle them.
Vests have the added advantage that you can dress baby in vest alone for feeding or if it’s warm in summer. Remember the basic rules of baby clothes, the less they wear the less washing you have to do and the less hassle it is when changing nappies!
OK so the second staple item is babies wardrobe is…
Sleepsuit
Otherwise know as a romper suit in the US. This item of clothing is pretty much all you need for baby until they are about 6 months old. They come in 1001 different colours and patterns and this is where you can show off your babies individuality whilst still letting your baby be comfortable.
“But sleepsuits are just nightwear” I hear some of you cry. Well seeing as babies do pretty much nothing except sleep and lie down for the first six months of their life it seems the most logical thing to dress them in. It’s all very well having fancy clothing but to be honest if you were spending all day lying down wouldn’t you prefer to be in your pyjamas? Zara was pretty much in sleepsuits all day everyday until she was crawling. They are comfortable, quick to change, practical and you can get some gorgeous ones. As a busy mum I don’t have time to take off trousers, dresses, tights, socks, shoes etc everytime I need to change baby so sleepsuits it is.
Don’t confuse the sleepsuit/romper suit thing with items you can buy in the UK called romper suits, these tend to be similar “all in one” items of clothing but tend to not have feet in them and be a bit more “dressy/daytime wear” than sleepsuits.
So that’s the basics covered, then we move onto what I call…
Photo Clothes
These are the clothes which tend to be given as gifts (usually by people who haven’t had children) and tend to be pretty impractical. You know the type, frilly dresses, tights, fiddly fastenings and anything which looks cute but is a faff to put on and take off. You will find that these items are usually worn once and once only, it is of course obligatory that you get a photo of baby wearing the clothes to send to the person who gave it you but after this they will more than likely be retired to the back of the wardrobe and maybe brought out for a special occasion if they are lucky.
Shoes and Socks
Again an item of baby clothing that I just don’t “get”. I wouldn’t wear shoes if I was lying down all day so why would I put them on my baby. To be honest baby will just keep kicking them off anyway and you will spend half of your busy day just putting shoes back on. Of course shoes also need pairing with socks which also never actually stay on for more than 5 minutes and are a washing nightmare, you will lose at least 3 in every wash cycle and you will build a lovely collection of odd socks. My advice, avoid buying shoes and socks for as long as possible, Zara got her first shoes when she was 11 months old and only then did she really start wearing socks. The bonus about sleepsuits is that they cover the feet and so shoes and socks are not needed!
Jeans
Now this is my pet hate so I’m sorry if I offend anyone here but in my eyes jeans are a major no no for babies until they are able to at least crawl. Would you like to lie around in jeans all day, they can’t be comfy and I can’t think of any reason why a baby should wear jeans. Fair enough when they are starting to crawl and they need a bit more substantial clothing to cover knees but until then they just seem pointless to me.
Character Clothes
Again another one of my pet hates, no offence to anyone who loves Disney or other character clothes for their baby but I don’t do “branding”. Why pay for more expensive character clothes when you can get gorgeous normal clothes? Again fair enough when baby is old enough to have favourite characters they want to wear but before that they are just overpriced in my opinion. They also date photographs and take away from the main focus (ie the child) so stick to funky patterns, stripes, spots, stars, flowers etc and steer away from Mickey and Minnie!
Hats, Scratch Mitts, Booties
I was gifted so many of these with Zara and I don’t really recall using any of them except maybe one hat if we were going out somewhere. If you need scratch mittens then try and buy sleepsuits with them built in as separate ones always come off and are a faff to wash. I don’t even know what use booties actually have?
I think that’s all the basics covered so if you stick to the following guidelines you can’t really go wrong:
1) Always remember the less baby wears, the less washing you will need to do and the easier it is to change nappies.
2) Avoid anything that you wouldn’t like to spend all day lying around in yourself.
3) Stock up on vests and sleepsuits, it’s all you really need for the first 6 months.
4) Don’t buy loads of clothes in 0-3, you will get loads of presents in this size when baby arrives. If possible ask people to buy 3-6 month sized clothes instead otherwise you will have more 0-3 clothes than baby can ever possibly wear in 3 months!
Sometimes a photo just melts your heart
1You know when you see a photo which just takes your breath away? Well this was captured by my husband this morning on his mobile. It’s Zara playing round and round the garden like a teddy bear. I think it’s one of my favourite ever photos of her.
Gumigem Teething Necklace Review
2I was recently sent a Gumigem teething necklace to try out and review. Now Oscar is still a little young for teething products but Zara is still teething and loves chewing on things so proved an ideal candidate to test the necklace with.
GUMIGEM™ is the original UK teething necklace aimed to provide mummy with a stylish accessory that baby can chomp on to their hearts content. In two styles, and several colours, the necklaces are made from a similar material to that of most baby teethers. Our silicone meets FDA standards and is BPA, PVC, lead, latex and phthalate free. They can withstand high temperatures, making it easy for them to be sterilised or put in the dishwasher.
I received this pretty rusted gumigem heart pendant which is very pretty.
As you can see from the following photos the Gumigem proved to be a great hit with Zara and definitely has her approval



























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