Silent Sunday

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Boux Avenue Opening, Metrocentre

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I was asked if I would like to attend the pre-store opening of the new Boux Avenue store in the Metrocentre, Newcastle and of course I said yes :) I love clothes, love lingerie and I have a secret crush on Theo Paphitis so I’d have been mad to say no ;)

The Metrocentre is the 7th Boux Avenue store to be opened by owner Theo Paphitis (of Dragon’s Den fame) and offers a beautiful range of luxury lingerie which you won’t necessarily need to spend your children’s inheritance on (see what I did there? ;) ) You can also check them out on their online store if there isn’t currently a store near you :) Boux Avenue in the Metrocentre can be found on the lower level in the Green Mall.

The store is beautifully laid out with stunning displays and it has a really luxurious feel to it. I love the little screens they have around showing images of their clothes.

The lingerie itself is absolutely stunning and I could have quite happily walked out with one of everything from the store :) I did however especially like their nightwear range! OK so I’m a mum nowadays and cosy pyjamas and dressing gowns are a necessity when staggering around the house at 3am sorting out crying babies ;)

There is also a lovely range of toiletries, in particular I loved the shimmery body wash and their lip balm (I may have to invest with party season just around the corner ;) )

Of course the highlight of our visit was getting meet the rather lovely Mr Theo Paphitis. Oscar was rather impressed with him as well. (ps He’s not as short as he looks on the TV you know, I think it’s just because he’s always next to that tall and gangly Peter Jones ;) ) I didn’t quite catch the entire conversation that Oscar and Theo had but I’m hoping the handshake in the photo below wasn’t Oscar offering away half of my business for a bottle of milk ;)

50% Mummy's business for 1 bottle of milk - it's a deal!

Ooh and for the first week the store is open, they are offering a free pair of matching knickers with every bra! Definitely an opportunity to stock up on some lovely lingerie :)

I was kindly given a lovely goody bag after my visit containing some hand cream, lip balm, knickers and a gift card – ooh and a couple of extremely yummy cakes which I’ve just polished off whilst writing this :)

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The Gallery – Guilty Pleasure

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This post is this weeks entry for The Gallery over at Sticky Fingers

The prompt this week is Guilty Pleasures. Oh goodness where do I start? You see I have many but I’m only going to share one on the proviso that it goes no further than here and is never mentioned in public ;)

In our house we have “the library” , it sounds posh but what else do you call a large collection of books?

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We have hundreds of books covering politics, travel, classics, biographies etc but hidden away on the bottom shelf is my guilty pleasure :)

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Dead and Buried, That’s where I’d be without healthworkers!

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Thanks to Not My Year Off for tagging me :)

Quite simply if it wasn’t for healthworkers both myself and Oscar would be dead and buried by now. I don’t make a big thing out of our birth story, it’s much easier to focus on the positives but february 14th 2011 could have been the day we both died if it wasn’t for healthworkers.

From the emergency paramedics who arrived within 5 minutes of us phoning 999, the ambulance crew which arrived 5 minutes later, the midwives, nurses, operating team, the surgeon who managed to finally get Oscar breathing after 5 minutes, the theatre team who pumped back 9 units of blood into my body after I lost almost 3.5 litres of it. The neonatal team who cared for Oscar for the 16 days before I could bring him home. Needless to say I am very lucky and extremely thankful that I live in the UK today and have access to so many healthworkers to care for me.

Oscar

Sadly we were one of the lucky ones, doctors, nurses and midwives are vital to saving children’s lives. But there’s a massive shortfall of health workers in the world’s poorest countries. As ever, the poorest and most vulnerable are hardest hit. Half of the 8 million children who die each year are in Africa, yet Africa has only 3% of the world’s doctors, nurses and midwives.

On Tuesday Christine Mosler from Thinly Spread will attend the UN General Assembly in New York. She’s going to pressure David Cameron to play his full part in solving the health worker crisis. She’s done it before and she can do it again. We can help her.

This e-petition from Save The Children aims to have 60,000 signatures by that time. Please sign here.

Michelle from Mummy From The Heart and Gemma from Hello, It’s Gemma have a blog-hop to help raise awareness of the need for healthcare workers. “Write your 100 words about a great health professional you have encountered in your life.”

How can you help?

1) Sign the petition above.
2) Join the blog hop and spread the word!
3) Tweet and get social using #healthworkers

Let’s get those signatures and show how much we care!

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Silent Sunday

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Supernanny App Review

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I was recently asked if I would like a copy of the Supernanny Iphone App to review. I absolutely love watching Supernanny on TV and as I’m a bit of an App addict I of course said I’d love to. The app is only £1.99 which is a great price for what you get.

The first thing you do when you download the app is to complete profiles for you children. This then enables you to set up reward charts for them.

Zara and Oscars profiles

Once you have set up profiles you can then set up reward charts for each child based on what works for each child, the app is great as you can take photos of what each reward is so that your child can see what they will get.

You can tailor the rewards to each individual child

You can then create your list of rules which each child needs to stick to, there are a list of rules already included but you can again tailor these to suit your child.

You can edit the rules to suit your child

You can then set up a reward chart using various themes such as Space, Under Water, Fairies and Cats and Haunted Castle. Once this is done you are then ready to go.

Under Water Reward Chart

The app is really simple to use, you just add or remove reward stars depending on your child’s behaviour and if they are misbehaving there is a time out feature which counts down the time out for you. For those who aren’t familar with Supernanny, time out and the naughty spot is a common feature in the routine which teaches about consequences of misbehaviour. Now I know that if I needed to do a time out I would never have a handy stop clock with me but the app can do this for you.

The length of timeout is based on 1 minute for each year of your childs age

Aside from the rewards, rules and timeout features of the app, there are also some other features which include a guidance section which tells you how to deal with different sections and includes videos explaining how to go about implementing each of Supernanny’s techniques.

The advice section

There is also a games section on the app which has a slide puzzle game and a spot the difference puzzle on it which is always handy when you are out and about and need to keep the kids occupied for 5 minutes.

Slide puzzle game

Spot the Difference game

and of course there is a shop section of the app where you can buy the latest Supernanny products

Supernanny shop

Now admittedly Zara is still a little young to understand the rewards technique and naughty step at the moment but it is something I intend to start with her when she is a little older so I think this app will be great. Lets face it I’ve about a dozen books on the shelf but I never have time to sit down and read them so having advice to hand on my phone is a fantastic idea and at only £1.99 for the app I think it’s a bargain. :)

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The Gallery – A Happy Memory

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This post is this weeks entry for The Gallery over at Sticky Fingers

The prompt this week is A Happy Memory. I don’t think I need to explain this memory, so I’ll just post the photo :)

3rd August 2007

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I don’t like babies!

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Wow, it actually feels quite liberating to write that down! I don’t like babies, I don’t like babies, I don’t like babies! Now some have you have probably got looks on your faces similar to the look you would have if I’d just admitted I eat baby kittens (I don’t by the way!) I mean, why on earth would somebody who has 2 very young children say such an awful thing right?

Don’t get me wrong here, I love Zara and Oscar completely and I wouldn’t change my situation at all. Everyday I am thankful that I have two beautiful, healthy children. We wanted two children close together in age and we consider ourselves extremely lucky that we got exactly what we wished for :)

By now some of you are probably thinking “definite PND” right now but you are wrong, I’m not depressed at all, tired yes and incredibly bored yes but not depressed. I’m completely of sane mind, I’m just saying I don’t enjoy the baby stage at all.

I’m sure most people love the helpless little cute baby stage and really won’t understand me here but I didn’t have babies to HAVE babies, I had them to have children! A bit like when buying a house, a mortgage is something that comes with it even though you don’t really enjoy it. Luckily with babies the baby stage only lasts a year and not 25 though ;)

Babies to me are too needy, they cry a lot, they never sleep, they don’t give you much back and let’s face it they are pretty boring! It’s probably why I don’t go to baby groups or hang around with other mums with babies, I’m just not interested in what their little darlings have done, I don’t want to cuddle their babies. I have enough looking after my own thank you very much!

Of course I always do the fawning over new baby thing etc because that’s what’s expected right? I can’t really say no thanks when someone shoves their newborn baby in my arms, I can’t really tell them that their darling child is actually a bit freaky looking can I? And before anyone says anything Oscar has sticky out ears, his heads a funny shape and his hair grows into a Mohican (but he is mine so I can say that at least ;) )

I feel guilty for wishing away the first year of Oscar’s life but I can’t help feeling that way. With Zara the first year had a certain novelty value to it but now I know just how much fun it becomes when they are a little older, I just want to press the fast forward button and be there now!

I have loved the last six months with Zara, now this age I really, really love. I could spend all day playing with Zara, she is so much fun and learning so much. Her communication skills are amazing and it is so nice to be able to have a conversation with her. I can’t wait until Oscar is a little older and can give something back in the same way.

Do I feel guilty that I’d much rather spend my time with Zara at the moment than with Oscar? Of course I do! I know Oscar will never remember this period in his life though and I felt the same about Zara too at this age. It doesn’t alter the fact that we have a wonderful bond and that she has turned into a beautiful, intelligent little girl though :) I’m sure once Oscar gets a little older the same will happen with him and the fun part of being a family of four will really start :)

So there we have it :) I don’t like babies! I’m not depressed, not a freak, not unkind, not a bad mother, not cold, not heartless…I just don’t LIKE babies!

PS Photos in this post were taken by my lovely sister Sonia Thorpe Photography

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Maclaren Twin Techno Review

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Having a baby and toddler means a double pushchair of some kind is essential. Especially when there is only a 14 month age gap! When I asked Maclaren if we could test out their Maclaren Twin Techno, I was delighted when they said yes and I couldn’t wait to get out and take it for a test drive :)

We already have the Phil&Teds Explorer which I have really loved up until recently but since Oscar has become too big to lie down in it, I have had a few issues :(

He will happily sit in the double kit on the back but I always feel sad for him as he can’t see where we are going. It also means that when he falls asleep I can’t recline the seat and so he looks uncomfortable sleeping sitting up. My other main issue is that with the double kit on the back, there is no longer any room in the shopping basket and with a toddler and a baby you NEED somewhere to put everything.

I had opted for an inline double initially as I was worried about being able being able to get out and about with a tandem and we wanted pneumatic wheels for when we go out walking.

So did the Maclaren Twin Techno change my opinion of tandems and could it solve the issues I have with the Explorer? Well here is what we thought!

Size
When the Maclaren Twin Techno arrived, I admit to feeling rather nervous when I saw the size of the box, it was HUGE! However after unpacking it became apparent that the pushchair is anything but.

It was nice that the pushchair arrived pretty much fully assembled, all we needed to do was unfold it and attach the hood – simple!

The actual size of the pushchair when folded is great, it takes up far less boot space than the Explorer does and leaves me plenty of room for shopping etc. I admit we are lucky enough to have a big boot in the 4×4 but if I notice a difference then so should everyone.

Unfolded the pushchair actually seems much smaller than expected! I was expecting it to be much wider than it is but it is actually only 76cm wide compared to the Explorer being 62cm. We’ve taken it out quite a bit over the last couple of weeks and have rarely had trouble fitting through doors. Admittedly we can’t fit it down all the aisles in our local co-op and it is a squeeze through our front door and I’m sure there will be some shops around Durham we will encounter problems with but I have been impressed with how little trouble we’ve had so far!

I love showing off my beautiful babies side by side, and Zara and Oscar love sitting along side each other too :)

Unfolding
Now this is the first umbrella fold pushchair I’ve ever used and so it did take me a while to figure it out. The mechanics are easy enough, unclip storage locks, unfold and then push down the red thingys (not a technical term!) at the back. I still find it tricky pushing down the red things to be honest but it’s getting easier, it may be due to the fact that a) it’s new and a little stiff and b) I haven’t got the knack of it yet :) I love the fact that it’s all in one piece though and I don’t have to faff around attaching double kits etc.

Folding
Now this is really simple and I can manage it fine. Simply put on lock, kick up the red things, press a black lever and fold forwards until storage locks click in place. Please note when folding forwards however that the storage locks are on the outside as I usually have to unfold again to release them as I always forget to check :)

Shopping Basket
There is plenty of room in the shopping baskets under both seats and it is easy to fit everything we need for 2 under them. The access to them can be a little restricted when the seats are fully reclined but to be honest you get this with most pushchairs anyway :)

There are also 2 handy pockets on the back of the hoods which are great for putting in snacks, muslins etc which you frequently need :)

Accessories
The Twin Techno also came with head huggers and cosy toes, bottle holders and a raincover. I really like it when everything comes with the pushchair and you don’t have to go out and buy them separately!

Handle Height
Now this is something I always mention in pushchair reviews as it is important to us. My husband is 6’3″ and I am 5’10″ and we really dislike having to stoop over to push a pushchair. The handles on the Twin Techno are fixed which to us usually means low. Again I was surprised here as the handles are a very comfortable height for us and with them being angled inwards it doesn’t feel like I’m pushing a double.

The handle height is great for Daddy even at 6ft3

Comfort
Now the seats on the Twin Techno aren’t the widest you will find and I was concerned that Zara (aged 21 months) might find herself a bit cramped in them. The first time out in it she fell asleep though lol which she rarely does so she must have found it comfy :)

I also love that you can recline the seats independently so that when Oscar falls asleep I can just recline his seat and let him sleep comfortably.

Well they obviously both found it comfy!

Smoothness of Ride
The Twin Techno doesn’t have pneumatic wheels and I was concerned that it would make the pushchair a bit like a bone shaker but to be honest it fared really well, even over the unsurfaced gravel tracks we regularly walk. Admittedly pushing it up a gravelly bumpy hill for 1km was hard work so I handed over the steering wheel to Daddy lol.

It can’t have been that uncomfortable for the passengers as by the time we got to the top of the bumpy hill they were like this :)

Sleeping babies, a rare sight indeed!

OK so the ride in the Twin Techno will never be as smooth off-road as the Phil&Teds with it’s pneumatic tyres but on the plus side we are also never going to find ourselves with a flat tyre either and as long as the passengers are happy then so am I!

Value For Money
At approximately £220 we think the Twin Techno is fantastic value for money. It can be used straight from birth, is really functional and basically a fab product! OK so you can’t attach car seats to it and it isn’t parent facing but for what it is, it’s excellent!

Bearing in mind we paid about £500+ for our Phil&Teds with double kit, soft carry cot, car seat adapter and even had to pay extra for a rain cover!

I asked my husband what he thought value wise and he agreed, for what it does it beats the P&T hands down when it comes to value for money :)

Overall Opinion
We absolutely LOVE the Twin Techno and the Brown family wouldn’t hesitate in recommending it to anyone with twins or a baby and toddler. Big thumbs up from us!

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The Gallery – Shoes

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This post is this weeks entry for The Gallery over at Sticky Fingers

The prompt this week is Shoes.

Tara said “So this week let’s REALLY show that is the case by photographing something so every day you’d never normally think of getting your camera out and taking a picture of it”

Hmm shoes – well I have a photo of a shoe habit that cost me a fortune a few years ago, want to see it?

Bet you weren't expecting a photo of a horse's arse were you?

OK so I’ll explain to those of you still scratching your heads :) The photo is of course of my old farrier Mario (the Italian Stallion) hot shoeing my old horse. A shoe habit which cost me £60 every 6 weeks or so – ouch!

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